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How and Why to Sponsor a Child – My Personal Experience

February 17, 2015 by Priyanka Leave a Comment

Sponsoring a child may be one of the most meaningful decisions you make. But how do you start? And why do you even do it? Where should you sponsor a child? A bunch of questions will cross your mind. It certainly did for me.

My Sponsored Child: Bappa

My Sponsored Child: Bappa

Why?

Why should you sponsor a child? That’s a question you definitely want to ask yourself. The primary reason I chose to do it is because I wanted to make a difference, but I didn’t have too much time as a college student to physically go out and volunteer somewhere.

Here are a few reasons:

  • Opens your eyes to what children in poverty-stricken countries are going through
  • Makes you compassionate and count your blessings in your life
  • Brings educational, health, physical, emotional, and mental benefits to child and even extends to family and community
  • Cool thing to tell and show people!

In 2006, I decided to sponsor a child through Children International. I chose a beautiful, bright, young boy named Bappa in India. Here’s his photo. Isn’t he beautiful? 🙂

It’s been well over six years already, but every time I get a letter from him, it brings a smile to my face. Over time, I’ve developed a personal relationship with him though I’ve never met him. For example: he often writes to me about how he loves school and playing cricket. He often mentions his desire to be a doctor when he grows up.

How to Pick the Right Organization

I took some time to find the right organization to sponsor a child through. Though I discovered this by accidentally arriving on the Children International website, I didn’t select this organization immediately. I took a week or so to research different ones on the Internet. I looked at the benefits offered to the children.

By nature, I am a cautious person and I tend not to do something for the sake of it.

  • How much does it cost monthly? It’s okay to do something that is economically feasible for you.
  • What benefits does the organization offer to the child and his community? Determine educational and healthcare benefits offered to the child.
  • Benefits usually offered are: Emergency Food as Needed, Medical and Dental Care, Educational Support, Family Assistance, Clothes, Shoes and More!
  • Have others done it? Look at testimonials!

What’s interesting is these benefits are not only extended to the child, but his or her family and community. A portion of the money will go to providing something beneficial to the entire community like garden training, disaster relief, or a new water well. They work with schools, temples, churches,  and other programs in the area to expand their reach. Ultimately, a ripple effect takes place. Through your child, you are impacting the family and community at the same time.

Some Organizations to Look At:

  • Children International
  • Save The Children
  • ChildFund International
  • World Vision

How to Sponsor A Child

Once you pick the right organization, it’s very simple. You can set up a direct deposit account and have the amount withdrawn from your account automatically. That’s what I’ve set up. It’s easy, simple, and convenient. An user account is also set up online where you can manage your payment options, view your sponsored child’s profile and progress reports, view contribution history, and much more at any given time.

How Long To Do It?

It’s an ongoing process. There is no deadline or cut off time. I am still sponsoring Bappa and hope to do so in the coming years as well. Currently, he is 13 years old. This definitely is a commitment, but it’s only $22 bucks from my wallet each month. Think about it. You probably spent $22 bucks just like that in one meal. It’s a reasonable investment and brings numerous benefits to the child and yourself.

Go Ahead And Try It!

Furthermore, I have his photo framed in my room and often my friends will notice and ask me who he is. They become really excited and want me to show his letters. In turn, I’m proud to say two of my friends have also gone on to sponsor children of their own through an organization.

I hope to one day meet Bappa. I hope this post helped you if you’re thinking about doing it! Happy Sponsoring a Child! 🙂

What is your biggest takeaway from this post? Please share with me in the comments!

* This blog post appeared originally on My Pure Intuition

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The Benefit of Guided Meditations

February 12, 2015 by Priyanka Leave a Comment

I bought some guided meditations and play them during the night before going to sleep. I play them especially when I’m feeling stressed and need to bring myself back to the present moment.

Benefits of Guided Meditations

Benefits of Guided Meditations

I highly recommend listening to guided meditations. What is a guided meditation? It is a form of meditation where you are verbally guided  into a state of consciousness by the recording of a voice or person’s live voice.

Here are some excellent benefits of guided meditations:

More Peace and Focus

As you find yourself being gently guided into a state of consciousness by the guided meditation, you will find yourself more focused on the present moment. A peaceful energy will fill you up.

Able to Deal with Stress Better

It allows you to let go and release any tensions. It’s one of my favorite ways to deal with stressful situations. Scientific studies show how your brain is positively influenced with meditation.

Dive Deeper into Your Body

The tense energies lie in different parts of your body. It can be in your stomach, chest, shoulders, neck, etc. Meditation allows you to dive deeper into your body and become still. You can pinpoint exactly where the pressure lies in your body and relieve it.

Tap Into Your Creativity

Another favorite of mine is to get my creative juices churning by meditating. When you are trying too hard, your creativity is suppressed. It’s a great way to free up your energy and generate creativity.

Related: Dancing in My Own Bedroom – Embracing My Divine Feminine and Sensual Side

What is your biggest takeaway from this post? Please share with me in the comments.

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How to Stop Being a Control Freak

February 11, 2015 by Priyanka Leave a Comment

My tendencies to be a control freak have watered down. Thank goodness! Maybe it has to do with me being the oldest in my family and a Taurean. I have always felt a strong sense of responsibility and being calm and collected. I had to always be in control. No matter what.

Stop Controlling and Surrendering More

Stop Controlling and Surrendering More

Well, soon after, I learned life doesn’t work that way. Just when you think you have everything under control, things unravel 🙂

Here are some great ways to start to stop being a control freak…

Start Surrendering

Funny, I say surrendering. This month February for some reason has been intense for me. I have been feeling all sorts of emotions. Blocks are suddenly arising. Fears are cropping up. I am relying on my self care and inner work.

I am feeling huge resistance. My walls are coming up. I want to be in control.

What do you do in this situation? Completely let go. Stop over analyzing and thinking. Breathe and let go. Breathe and surrender.

Related: Dancing in My Own Bedroom – Embracing My Divine Feminine and Sensual Side

Confide in Others

You don’t need to go through everything alone. Confide in a friend or loved one or family member about what you’re going through. When you do this, you won’t feel the need to control everything. You can shift what you’re feeling to your loved ones. You can depend on them, too. Just like they depend on you.

Don’t Pretend to Have it Together When You Feel Otherwise…

This one was big. Especially for someone like me who has to have it together. Well, I’m a human, for God sake!

Exactly! You are a human and you can’t have it together all the time. You don’t need to pretend either.

Accept You Can’t Control Everything

You can’t control everything. Or anyone. Period. So stop trying to do so. Once you learn to let go, you’ll find it’s a tremendous relief to let go and let the cards fall where they fall.

What are your thoughts on this post? Please share with me in the comments!

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Making Smoothies Using My Magic Bullet Everyday – Divine Happiness!

February 10, 2015 by Priyanka Leave a Comment

I had decided to buy a Magic Bullet sometime in December. But I never really got around to it. My roommate has one and I would see her creating beautiful, yummy smoothies constantly.

Magic Bullet: Make Yummy, Delicious Smoothies

Magic Bullet: Make Yummy, Delicious Smoothies

And ever since I got my part-time position, I felt a strong desire to get a Magic Bullet so I can whip up some fresh smoothies for myself.

Follow My Happiness…

One of the main reasons I wanted to get this part-time position was so I could support myself financially while living in my apartment and also find time to lead a more balanced life. I wanted to be feel more at peace and happier.

January came and went. And when February came, I wondered why I hadn’t gotten the Magic Bullet. SO I marched offer to Target and bought one.

Creating Harmony and Life Balance

I made a raspberry and blueberry smoothie as soon as I came home. It was wonderful and tasty! My taste buds were having an orgasm 😉 I work four days out of the week and before heading to work, I made a smoothie. I had this bounce in my step and energy every morning. My days went a lot more smoothly and I felt I was nourishing my body and soul at the same time.

Owned My Desire

When you have desires like this, it’s important to honor them no matter how little they may seem. These tiny steps lead to giant changes in your transformation.

What is your biggest takeaway from this post? Please share with me in the comments!

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What Are Your Non-Negotiables?

February 6, 2015 by Priyanka Leave a Comment

When you start to become busy and especially if you are an ambitious, go-getter woman like me, it’s important to have a sane head and create joy in the journey. But how do you do that?

What Are Your Non-Negotiables?

What Are Your Non-Negotiables?

Well, there is this concept called…determining your non-negotiables. It works like a lucky charm!

What Do You Absolutely Need Every Day?

When I came to this realization, it changed so many things for me. Determining what your non-negotiables are about creating balance in your life so you can be happier and more at peace.

My non-negotiables are having time on my hands to exercise, sleep eight hours every night, and create delicious smoothies and meals.

On my earlier job, I worked from home. I thought it would be a flexible position, but it turned out to be completely different. I worked more and had no time for myself. I was getting cranky.

I took the decision to take this new part-time position, so I have the time to do all my non-negotiables.

Related: How to Raise Your Vibration Easily Especially When You’re Having a Low Day

How Can You Create Space and Time For Them?

And you know what? I actually get way more stuff done!

When you know what your non-negotiables are in your self-care tool kit, then you can think about how you can create space and time for them. My way was to take up a part-time position, so I could have time and space. Maybe you can transition to a similar position or talk to your boss about making your schedule more flexible. You can wake up earlier to incorporate your non-negotiables.

Hold Yourself Accountable

The more you pay attention to your self-care, your efficiency and joy will skyrocket. Hold yourself accountable. Make sure you are taking time out each week for yourself.

What are your non-negotiables? Please share with me in the comments.

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