The faster you learn to ask for exactly what you want, the easier your life will be and the happier you will be. This is something I learned in the hard way.
I realized I wanted my life to be so many things. I realized I wanted more out of my romantic relationships. But I never asked. Until I learned the beauty and power of asking!
Start Asking the Universe What You Want
I remember reading Eat Pray Love and feeling an aha moment when Elizabeth Gilbert said how a prayer or wish was of no use if you didn’t ask for exactly what you wanted. How would the Universe give it to you?
This year, I started asking for exactly what I wanted. I let the Universe answer to me. I didn’t need to know how or when. The Universe will find a way to bring you what you want as long as you remain open and positive.
Start Asking Others What You Want
This one has not been easy for me. Whether it’s your parents, boyfriend, or boss, start telling them exactly what you want. Do you want to go to a specific restaurant? Or do you want to take your relationship to the next level? Or do you want a raise because you have been working a lot?
Don’t Assume People are Mind Readers
I usually became passive aggressive when my desires weren’t being met. Until a boyfriend told me: “Priyanka, how will I know if you don’t tell me?” That changed my perspective.
Be Bold and Direct
Don’t beat around the bush. Ask boldly and be direct, though in a polite manner.
Do you ask for what you want boldly? Please share with me in the comments.