When you are dating and meeting multiple guys, it’s better to have some kind of strategy in place. I know strategy makes it sound dry and unromantic, but it’s the best way to approach it. Your strategy does not have to be detailed and a step by step guide!
Have a Clear Vision
It simply means to have a clear vision of what you want in a romantic relationship. At some point, dating will have to transition into something more serious and a relationship.
Instead of dating aimlessly, it’s better to have a clear idea of what you envision in your guy and relationship.
Be Direct and Forthright
Whether you just came out of a serious, long-term relationship or not, be direct with the men you’re dating.
If you’re serious about marriage and seeing each partner through the lens of what your future would be like with him, then I would suggest being honest right away as soon as possible.
I’ll give you an example. Without going into detail, I have a history of dating interesting men (to put it lightly, lol). After only a couple dates, I was honest about my previous relationship and what I wanted in my life partner ultimately.
Being direct will save you a whole lot of time and is in the best interest of both you and him.
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