Have you just jumped onto the dating bandwagon? Finding it challenging? Getting frustrated? The dating jungle can be fun and exciting, but also nerve wracking. I want to share six easy tips on how you can keep your sanity in the dating process.
Here they are!
Let Him Chase You
When you’re talking to a guy, let him chase you and take most of the initiative. He should be the one asking you out for coffee or dinner. You are the prize, so he better be on top of his game.
Don’t Be Scared to Initiate Contact Sometimes
Having reinforced my previous point, I also believe sometimes you can also take the initiative. I believe that the first date must be initiated by the man. However, a man will love it if you also ask him out on subsequent dates.
Date More Than One Man
To keep your sanity and not put all your focus on one man until exclusivity hasn’t been discussed, see more than one man. Weigh your options until that loving, worthy man doesn’t lock you down and want to have an exclusive relationship with you.
Continue Having Your Normal Life
Remember to keep doing the things you were doing before you started dating. Taking a salsa class? Going to Meet Up groups? Well, keep doing that! Your life doesn’t change just because you started dating him. It will cause you to be upbeat and confident and not put everything on one man.
There Are Great, Quality Men Everywhere
If a guy doesn’t show much excitement anymore and the chemistry is fading, then move on. There are wonderful, quality men everywhere. You can get to know one of them…
Trust Your Gut Feeling
No matter what I say and all the dating advice you find in books and online, nothing will compensate for your intuition. Do what you feel is best and trust your gut feeling.
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