I hope you haven’t been in this situation. Fortunately, I have not. But if you have been, it may have been a confusing and nerve wracking time for you. Many questions must be swirling in your head. The most important question of all: What do you do once he admitted he was unfaithful?
How Do You Deal with a Cheating Boyfriend?
I had a friend who went through this situation. This was her first boyfriend. I remember vividly that she had always mentioned she would end the relationship if she found out her man cheated.
When it actually happened and that too over and over, she didn’t end things. Instead, she gave him chances. Many times.
But She Never Trusted Him Again…
She could never trust him again. When he was out, she panicked and would call or text him repeatedly. The foundation of their relationship had been rocked forever.
Should You Give Him Another Chance if He Fesses Up?
That choice lies entirely with you. To be honest, there is no right or wrong. Whatever decision feels most right and genuine for you.
If you decide to not give him another chance, you’re justified in doing so. Maybe that is the ultimate for you. If you do give your relationship another shot, understand that emotionally it is not going to be easy going forward. You’ll both have to start fresh and build a strong foundation again from scratch.
Also, understand the reasons of his unfaithfulness. Was it a one time thing? Was it because he was going through a tough time and slipped up? Or is he a chronic cheater? Has he done this more than once? These are ALL EXTREMELY important questions to consider.
What are your thoughts on this post? Please share with me in the comments.