This is an age old question: How do you get a guy addicted to you? How does the guy find you absolutely breath-taking and irresistible?

Oh, my! I have dated quite a bit and though not an expert, I do consider myself fairly knowledgeable. To be honest, I have managed a couple guys to fall head over heels over me 😉 As I went through my experiences, I understood what men found ravishing about a woman.

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Be Yourself!

This sounds cliched, but it’s really true. Just be yourself. I love to eat and I remember being pretty conscious on some dates about my eating. But when I stopped caring and allowed myself to be me, the guy fell for me. I remember him saying he loved watching me eat because I felt so much joy and pleasure in eating my food!

Be Genuinely in Love with Your Own Life

Create a life for yourself that you love, whether there is a man or not in your life. Prioritize yourself. Take that salsa class you always wanted. Go pursue that dream of writing a screenplay. Whatever it is, enjoy your life. A guy will see and love that about you.

Embrace Your Vulnerable Side

Don’t be afraid to express your emotions and let moments of vulnerability come to the surface. It is what makes you soft and human.

Be Sweet and Caring

Don’t be a bitch. Be nice and caring. If he’s not feeling well, ask him how he’s feeling. Let him know you’re there for him. He’ll melt with your sweetness.

Create Moments of Space and Silence

Make sure you spend time apart. Make him long for you! How can he think about you if you’re always around? When you’re together, let the silence penetrate the air. It makes the moment more enchanting…

Have you found a guy becoming addicted to you? How did you do it? Please share with me in the comments!