Ah, the age-old question! Where do you meet great guys? Lots of places, actually!
Are You Tired of Bars and Clubs to Meet Guys?
I dipped my foot into the dating scene when I was twenty-three years old. I did what most girls did in their twenties. I bar hopped and clubbed a lot. I did meet guys there, but generally these guys were not interested in relationships. I would go on a date or two and it would taper off.
If you are like me, then you may want to find other places to meet guys, besides a club or bar.
Coffee Shops
Take your work or school work to a coffee shop. Flip open your laptop, order a chai latte, and look at the crowd huddled in the coffee shop. Sit next to a guy you find attractive.
You can always make small talk and ask him questions about his work, being smooth the entire time. This way, the conversation can start off naturally and you can see if sparks arise.
Gym
Whenever I hit the gym, I notice many cute guys! An easy way to meet a guy is to head to the weights section and ask a cute guy for help on weights. Make small talk!
The Mall
At the food court or stores, you’ll see many young men and women. I would suggest going with your girlfriends, so it’ll be more comfortable to make casual conversation with a guy you find attractive. Chances are he is with his friends, too.
Meet Ups / Associations
I attend a lot of Meet Ups and it’s the perfect way to meet guys who share the same interest as yours. You can attend a Meet up or join an association for practically any interest today!
Through Other People and Friends
Be social and mingle with your friends and other people at parties. You’ll meet some great men there!
How have you met guys? Please share with me in the comments.
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