Many women believe you have to play games to get a guy hooked and interested. Maybe some mind games and mental stimulation can be fun! But it’s important to overall not play games in the dating stage.

I’ve learned from personal experience that there are some easy tips you can follow to move out of playing games and getting more real. Ultimately, dating and relationships require a genuine, authentic connection which means being real.

Be ACTUALLY Busy. Don’t Fake It

Ladies, when you first start dating someone and actually like him, you will feel butterflies in your stomach. You’ll want to call and text him all the time.

Then, you’ll notice he’ll start to back away. At this point, you may either get into overdrive and contact him more. Or you’ll play hard to get and minimize your contact.

I believe it is important to take a step back and not contact him as much. But the vital point here is to not fake being busy, but to ACTUALLY make yourself busy. Make it authentic and create a life that you love with or without him.

Be Honest About How You Are Feeling

It doesn’t matter what stage you are in the dating or relationship stage. Take the time to tell him how you feel. Express your feelings. Don’t push your feelings away. If you feel nervous and scared about something, then tell him.

Don’t psyche yourself out of doing this by worrying about his reaction. If anything, it will help you better judge how well suited he is for you in your life.

Just Be Yourself

Lastly, just be who you are. You are beautiful and lovable exactly the way you are. Drop your walls and become vulnerable. This is how an authentic connection is formed between two humans, be it friendship or romantic relationships.

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