Should you date multiple guys? This is a great question! I would answer with a big fat YES!
ALWAYS Keep Your Options Open
Ladies, I can’t emphasize this enough! We have all been there, but every one of us must have gotten emotionally attached to a man we went on a couple dates with. Everything was picture perfect! He was perfect. The night was perfect. The dinner was perfect. The sex was mind blowing… And then you realized later he didn’t want a relationship.
What Just Happened?!
You became emotionally attached to a man and started believing you’re in a relationship without ACTUALLY being in a relationship.
I want you to scream this on top of the roof tops. If you don’t have a roof top, then in your freaking bedroom! You are beautiful, majestic, magnificent, intelligent, and most of all, DESERVE a loving, healthy relationship with an extraordinary man.
So why would you give away all of you before getting a commitment from him? Until he doesn’t verbally and SHOW you he is committed, continue seeing more than one man.
Figure Out What You Want and Do NOT Want
Secondly, it’s a fantastic strategy to figure what qualities you want in a man and what you don’t want. Truthfully, you figure a whole LOT about what you do not want! Let the man serenade and woo you and prove he is an extraordinary man to you.
Don’t Date for Too Long
My last bit of advice would be it’s great to be dating more than one man, but don’t drag it for too long. Make each date count. Have fun and enjoy yourself. Go by your gut feeling, but determine which man proves to be the best match for you and go for a relationship!
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