Are you tired of going in circles in dating? Do you just jump from guy to guy and are left feeling unsatisfied? And now you’re not sure what you’re doing? Take a deep breathe. Every woman has been there!
I Got Tired of Meaningless Dates…
This merry go round can be exhausting. A couple years ago, I have to be honest, I created that situation for myself. I didn’t know what I wanted and it was fun in the beginning. I went with the flow and went on dates with guys far longer than I should have.
It was also because I wasn’t sure what I wanted. I didn’t know what direction to head. There was a big question mark in my own heart about what I truly wanted from a relationship.
Figure out Your Purpose – What’s Your Vision?
I burned out fast. I got bored. It was meaningless. When I was flung in the dating pool again, I decided I would do things differently this time. I would actually think about what I want in a romantic partner and the vision I have for my life.
A lot of this has to do with the fact that I am a lot more serious and mature now, but it’s also because I want a beautiful, lasting, and meaningful connection with someone.
If you don’t want to go in the merry go round in dating, then it’s a great idea to sit down and visualize how you see your life and especially how your partner fits into your life. You can even write it down. This way, when you start dating, you’ll be able to develop a sparkling connection more easily with the right person.
What are your thoughts on this post? Please share with me in the comments.