I have been noticing a kind of stagnant energy around me. It is making me uncomfortable and want to push and control because I don’t know how to approach or understand this fear-driven energy.

I am noticing it is arising especially when I am trying to manifest specific desires into reality. Things are taking their own pace and flow, different from what I expected and imagined. It is taking me away from my inner point of stillness.  While a new year usually feels refreshing and brand new, I feel like I’m being faced with similar situations and fears again.

Yet at the same time, I can feel that things, people, and circumstances are shifting in my life. I feel helpless at the moment because I don’t understand why and how it is happening. I’m not sure how to tackle what is unfolding. An inner dialogue is running in my mind that is not supportive and uplifting to me.

Until I took a deep breath.  Until I let go of my reaction to the discomfort. I started to listen to it and observe it carefully. I stopped resisting. I started to trust the divine process unfolding.

When you’re not sure of the purpose behind the process, one of the golden rules of manifestation and the Universe is to simply trust the process wholeheartedly. Let go of your expectations or any notions you have about the events unfolding in your life.

Let Go and Release

This stagnant, humdrum energy will make you feel uncomfortable, but the more you try to avoid or push it away, the more it will cause you to react in ways that are not supportive.

Instead let this energy be and place all your focus in the present moment. Do you want to eat a yogurt? Do you want to drink a glass of water? Do you want to talk to a friend for support and love? Focus on loving yourself and honoring your needs and desires.

This energy is there for a reason and it is shifting and creating space for a fresher, lighter energy to fill in to create new events, relationships, and experiences in your life. After a point, you will feel relaxed and lighter.

Surrendering and letting go does not mean that you are giving up in any way.

It is about pouring all your energy and consciousness in the moment in front of you and releasing what happened yesterday and is to happen tomorrow.  It means you are letting your energy guide your actions.  It is about being in sync with your higher self and going with the flow and journey your life is taking you on with a gentle trust.

Embrace the Preparation Period

Sometimes, similar situations, relationships, and people come into your life and then gracefully leave to teach you the same lesson over and over.  Until you don’t understand the purpose and lesson behind it, they won’t go away.

This is extremely important to your growth as a human being.  As a spiritual being, you come to the Universe with specific soul lessons to master.  It is your higher soul’s greatest benefit to drop deep into your inner guidance so you can grasp the learnings.

When you have understood these learnings, you will find something click inside you.  You will feel this deep knowing that you are supported and loved beyond your wildest dreams.

New channels and experiences will open up and take you on an even more meaningful journey.

Accept Divine Timing

Sometimes, the preparation period also exists because you are not fully ready to call and accept your heart’s deepest desires.  You’re not ready to call in that perfect job, relationship, or large sum of money into your life.

So you are in transition.  You are going through a divine process of preparation and it does not mean that you are not worthy, it simply means that you have to connect back into your inner self.

It means diving in even deeper with your self and having the patience to see the beauty of this gorgeous preparation period.  It means committing to your inner growth and evolution even more passionately.

Because when that desire does finally arrive, you will be the person you need to be to fully accept and enjoy that desire.  Your higher self knew this all along.  It is just waiting for you to realize it.

How do you support yourself through your divine process of preparation?  How do you trust the process unfolding to allow what is truly right for you instead of what you want?  Please share with me in the comments.