The debate of the centuries! What do bitchy girls have that nice girls don’t? Why do men seem to feel attracted to them more than the nice girl? I am of the opinion that as we mature and time passes by, I see men feeling more attracted to the nice girl. I see men settling down with the nice girl.
Here are 3 reasons why! (Of course, this post is meant to be taken in a light hearted spirit!)
Nice girls are actually nice. They’ll be sweet towards you and be gentle. Now being nice doesn’t necessarily mean they’ll do anything for you if you’re not returning the same care and generosity. But they’ll overall be pleasant to be around.
Being There for You
When the going gets rough, that nice girl is going to be there. She’ll have your back. I consider myself a nice girl with loads of self-respect and I’ve always been there for my family and friends when they needed me.
When I’m with someone, I give myself wholeheartedly and I believe I should not be there only for his good moments, but even the not so great ones.
Nice girls are giving. They don’t want to take and take and not give anything. If anything, the reverse can sometimes apply. They can sometimes give too much even without the other person not returning. So that’s one of the things nice girls need to learn – how to give in balance. And that’s it’s perfectly alright to keep yourself open to receive.
What are some qualities you think nice girls have that bitchy girls do not? Please share with me in the comments!