When you’re crushing on a shy guy, it’s not so simple to grab his attention. All the normal things you would do with a more outgoing guy don’t really work with this more reserved gentleman.

Here are some tips I’ve put together! I hope they are as helpful as they were to me to get the attention of a shy guy.

Strike Up a Casual Conversation

Talk to him about general topics, maybe entertainment or work. It will make him feel comfortable because you won’t be too intrusive or personal when talking to him. He’ll open up and you’ll steadily gain his trust.

Ask Him a Question or For Help

You can ask him a question or for help on something. It will make him feel good and he may open up more as a result.

Connect to Him On Social Media

Add him as a Friend on Facebook. Or poke him on Facebook. You can connect with him on other social media. There is a safe distance between you two which won’t intimidate him as much.

Drop Subtle Hints

You drop subtle hints that you like him, so you can gauge his feelings and reaction.

Be Touchy, but in a Gentle Way

Make a move! You can brush your hand against his and see how he responds. This is touchy, yet not too much. You can touch him on the shoulder or hug him.

Boost His Confidence and Compliment Him

Shy guys need some prodding to get out of their shell. You can start with complimenting him. Watch him blush and beam with pride! When he understands he feels confident around you, he’ll automatically reveal personal layers of his personality.

Ask Him Out!

After you have done all of the above, just make the move and ask him out! You can make the first move in a classy and feminine way. Ask him for dinner or a drink and watch his reaction!

How did you get the attention of a shy guy? Please share with me in the comments!