Do you believe you are worthy of a beautiful, healthy love? Ask yourself this question gently. Be honest to yourself. And are your actions aligning with your beliefs?

Your Thoughts and Beliefs Are Driving Your Actions

I said I deserved a good man, but did I really believe it? No, I didn’t. It was like a far fetched dream. And what was I receiving in return? Not the right man.

I could keep blaming the men in my life. To tell you the truth, they do have a role to play. They had brought in their own baggage and it affected me. But what about me? Why I was I attracting those men into my life?

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Because I Didn’t Believe I was Worthy of a Great, Healthy Love

I had to stop shifting my responsibility to the man I was seeing. If he didn’t fit into what I wanted in a man, then I needed to reexamine why I was with him.

If I wanted a healthy, great love, then I had to believe it NOW. It was the only way for the perfect, right man to enter my life.

If I feel only 70 % good, then only 70 % greatness would come to me. Once I fill the rest, then a pure, ever lasting love can come to me.

I would rather not date for the heck of it anymore. I don’t regret my past experiences, rather I feel immensely thankful and blessed for having them. I am not closing my heart at all. I am keeping my heart open because I want to marry the love of my life. Someone who brings out my best and with whom I can share a healthy relationship.

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