This is a question haunting women since the beginning of time. What makes a man to commit? Why do some women have their guys commit so easily? What do the rest of us not have that she does?
Gosh, too many questions! Of course, I am not an expert on this, but I do believe I have a very keen eye and possess a sharp intelligence when it comes to guys.
Commitment is a Decision
First things first. I do believe commitment is a decision. We commit to careers and little things like what to eat for dinner all the time. So what makes commitment so difficult for a guy? It’s not rocket science. It could be fears of being abandoned due to their childhood or simple as not wanting to lose their freedom.
Whatever it is, I am suggesting that it is actually pretty easy for a guy to commit.
Once you got these basics covered, darling…
Be a Fabulous Woman He Can’t Help But Be in Awe
Mind my language, but you got to be the Universe’s most wonderful, fucking woman in his eyes. No matter where he goes and even faced with temptation, that woman does not measure up to you in any way. You don’t have to be Angelina Jolie, but what I mean is you are the best version of yourself with or without him. Believe me, he’ll notice it.
Be very clear about what you want in the relationship. Have opinions and don’t be afraid to step up and express them. When needed, draw boundaries. When you say something, make sure you actually do it. It’ll make him take you seriously. Why? Because you bloody take yourself seriously!
Make Him Earn It
Contrary to what many believe, men actually want to earn the woman. They don’t want it to be easy. They wanted to jump through hoops to win the woman of their dreams. He needs to feel like he earned your attention and love. It also shows how you hold yourself up to high standards.
What are some steps you took to get your boyfriend or partner to commit? What are your thoughts on the steps I mentioned? Please share with me in the comments.